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    Emotionally Ineffective

    I have not written many personal posts recently because honestly, I have been having a hard time. Emotionally that is.

    I do not want to be cynical. I want to love all and love myself just as widely as my empathy and compassion is for others. I do not want others to see these hard parts of me.

    So this is why you all have not heard from me much, as of recently.

    Hang in there with me, I will be okay. I just want you all to know that I am still here, same old Milo, just needing to be a little withdrawn for a moment.

    Thank you and lots of love.

    Posted on: 20th October 2014 - 5 notesReblog

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    "Size matters not. Look at me. Judge me by my size, do you? Hmm? Hmm. And well you should not. For my ally is the Force, and a powerful ally it is. Life creates it, makes it grow. Its energy surrounds us and binds us. Luminous beings are we, not this crude matter. You must feel the Force around you; here, between you, me, the tree, the rock, everywhere, yes. Even between the land and the ship."

    Jedi Master Yoda

    Posted on: 20th October 2014 - 3 notesReblog

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    Sometimes I hang around the house with suspenders on my pants and no shirt.

    Sometimes I hang around the house with suspenders on my pants and no shirt.

    Posted on: 20th October 2014 - 6 notesReblog

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    thepaperheartsociety:

June | 2014
For the anon with anxiety. 
You deserve love and you deserve life. 

    thepaperheartsociety:

    June | 2014

    For the anon with anxiety. 

    You deserve love and you deserve life. 

    (via barefootinadress)

    Posted on: 20th October 2014 - 25,950 notesReblog

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    janetmock:

gradientlair:

"Janet, you know how much I love you. I look up to you as a big sister. And this book really, in my eyes, made me see myself as not just the one who went through my experience alone. Every time I would read a page in your book, it would be like a black and white scene of a movie in my head of my life, of something that you experienced that I’ve experienced in some way. It’s really hard for me to express myself to people when it comes to experiences that I had whether it be good or bad. And for you to have written a book about that is really a blessing. It’s like…this is like the ten commandments for us right now. Like literally. It speaks truth. And with truth comes freedom." - CeCe McDonald
Part of what Cece McDonald said to Janet Mock in regards to her important, exquisitely written, groundbreaking book about being a trans woman of colour, Redefining Realness: My Path to Womanhood, Identity, Love & So Much More. Quote is from The Barnard Center For Research on Women annual salon that featured several panelists.

Oh, CeCe. I love that girl.

    janetmock:

    gradientlair:

    "Janet, you know how much I love you. I look up to you as a big sister. And this book really, in my eyes, made me see myself as not just the one who went through my experience alone. Every time I would read a page in your book, it would be like a black and white scene of a movie in my head of my life, of something that you experienced that I’ve experienced in some way. It’s really hard for me to express myself to people when it comes to experiences that I had whether it be good or bad. And for you to have written a book about that is really a blessing. It’s like…this is like the ten commandments for us right now. Like literally. It speaks truth. And with truth comes freedom." - CeCe McDonald

    Part of what Cece McDonald said to Janet Mock in regards to her important, exquisitely written, groundbreaking book about being a trans woman of colour, Redefining Realness: My Path to Womanhood, Identity, Love & So Much More. Quote is from The Barnard Center For Research on Women annual salon that featured several panelists.

    Oh, CeCe. I love that girl.

    (via celestethebest)

    Posted on: 20th October 2014 - 1,375 notesReblog

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    genderoftheday:

Today’s Gender of the Day is: Don’t recall.

    genderoftheday:

    Today’s Gender of the Day is: Don’t recall.

    (via tombtea)

    Posted on: 19th October 2014 - 15,598 notesReblog

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    Posted on: 18th October 2014 - 9,885 notesReblog

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    trans-matters:

sleepyllama:

Mis-gendering usually feels like a punch to the stomach, especially when its on purpose. 


Never misgender someone. Ever. If they have told you their pronouns, or you are aware of them, then never misgender someone. Not as an insult. Not if you think they’re a bad person. There is no excuse.

    trans-matters:

    sleepyllama:

    Mis-gendering usually feels like a punch to the stomach, especially when its on purpose. 

    Never misgender someone. Ever. If they have told you their pronouns, or you are aware of them, then never misgender someone. Not as an insult. Not if you think they’re a bad person. There is no excuse.

    (via trans-feminism)

    Posted on: 18th October 2014 - 11,910 notesReblog

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    sialand:

    femmewitchqueen:

    coffindirt:

    sizvideos:

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    femmewitchqueen

    I DONT KNOW WHAT YOURE TALKING ABOUT

    Words can’t express how I relate to this.

    (via magicallyabsurdly)

    Posted on: 17th October 2014 - 97,889 notesReblog

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    Chubby Tubby Trans Tag

    chubbytubbytrans:

    Hey all! If you want me to reblog your selfie, you can tag it #chubbytubbytrans and I will check for it to post it!

    Or you can head over to the SUBMIT link and submit your picture there!

    And remember, your submission should be about being trans AND about being fat and/or chubby. Make sure that both of these things are included in the content of your submission.

    Love to all you fabulous people.

    There’s a new way to submit to Chubby Tubby Trans! This is a place where chubby and fat trans people of all varieties and expressions (including but not limited to agender, bigender, demigirl, demiguy, genderfluid, genderfuck, genderqueer, neutrois, non-binary, pangender, third gender, trigender, transgender, transsexual, mtf, ftm, etc.) can submit or just be in awe of our beautiful selves!

    Posted on: 17th October 2014 - 1 noteReblog

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    taleofthegraywolf:

Tale Of The Gray Wolf’s FIRST EVER GIVEAWAY!
This giveaway is for 10 patches, all hand drawn and printed by myself. The entire contents of the case is included:
1x large death’s head hawk moth patch
1x small death’s head hawk moth patch
1x solar system patch
1x Watership Down patch
1x queer punx patch, white on black
1x queer punx patch, black on pink
1x ‘adopt don’t buy’ patch
1x butternut mosh patch
1x no fur patch
1x stag beetle patch
To enter: 
- Each reblog counts as an entry
- Likes do not count
- No giveaway blogs
- You don’t have to be following me to win but it would be nice ^_^
- I will ship anywhere
If you don’t win and are still interested in any of these patches, these and more are available at Tale Of The Gray Wolf.
The giveaway will end on Sunday 16th November at midnight EST. Please have your inbox open - if I don’t hear back from the winner in two days I’ll move onto someone else.
Good luck and thankyou!
taleofthegraywolf / yurei-chan

    taleofthegraywolf:

    Tale Of The Gray Wolf’s FIRST EVER GIVEAWAY!

    This giveaway is for 10 patches, all hand drawn and printed by myself. The entire contents of the case is included:

    1x large death’s head hawk moth patch

    1x small death’s head hawk moth patch

    1x solar system patch

    1x Watership Down patch

    1x queer punx patch, white on black

    1x queer punx patch, black on pink

    1x ‘adopt don’t buy’ patch

    1x butternut mosh patch

    1x no fur patch

    1x stag beetle patch

    To enter: 

    - Each reblog counts as an entry

    - Likes do not count

    - No giveaway blogs

    - You don’t have to be following me to win but it would be nice ^_^

    - I will ship anywhere

    If you don’t win and are still interested in any of these patches, these and more are available at Tale Of The Gray Wolf.

    The giveaway will end on Sunday 16th November at midnight EST. Please have your inbox open - if I don’t hear back from the winner in two days I’ll move onto someone else.

    Good luck and thankyou!

    taleofthegraywolf / yurei-chan

    (via femmadilemma)

    Posted on: 17th October 2014 - 840 notesReblog

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    silverwing26:

    I was upset, and then delighted.

    (Source: princecanary, via gaydarjedi)

    Posted on: 16th October 2014 - 261,338 notesReblog

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    kateordie:

mountpleasantcomics:

it’s true.

I hear ya.

    kateordie:

    mountpleasantcomics:

    it’s true.

    I hear ya.

    (via beatingthebinary)

    Posted on: 15th October 2014 - 11,932 notesReblog

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    the-pineapple:

vastderp:

some years ago i was annoyed that there was no gender symbol to represent me, so this happened.
i think i should redraw this one now that I have mad lineart skills. maybe make it into a t shirt like people keep asking :D

I would buy this shirt.

    the-pineapple:

    vastderp:

    some years ago i was annoyed that there was no gender symbol to represent me, so this happened.

    i think i should redraw this one now that I have mad lineart skills. maybe make it into a t shirt like people keep asking :D

    I would buy this shirt.

    (Source: vastderp-placeholder, via beatingthebinary)

    Posted on: 15th October 2014 - 223 notesReblog

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    A Joyous Meeting with a Side of Diner Harassment

    So tonight (f)Emma’s and my parents met each other for the first time! It was amazing and everyone loved each other. We had so much fun at a little diner. There was good food, good people, it was a wonderful time.

    What happened towards the end was not as fun.

    There was a booth overflowing with teenage boys next to ours. You might say, “Oh no, this is a story about teenage boys being assholes again…” and you are correct. This IS another story about teenage boys being assholes. BUT it is also a story about their opinion being useless… almost as useless as their attempts to bring me down.

    Towards the end of dinner, before the check, I saw this big group of boys (probably about ten of them around 16-18 years old) at the booth next to us looking over and laughing to each other. I knew they were talking about me because they were looking at me and laughing. Thy looked at me like I was a freak. I glared at one and he laughed and said to the other boys, “She looked at me, did you see that?” and he laughed right at me as if it were the most hilarious and gross joke. This kid had a fucking top quality sense of humor, a really excellent knowledge of when things are funny. Not.


    There are two things I could do:
    A) I could have punched one of them in the face. I could have yelled. I could have gotten kicked out of this diner and my family would most likely get banned from coming back. I really thought immediately afterwards that I should have done this.
    OR
    B) I could do what I am doing, which is trek on. I am brave and beautiful and those boys, they are not worth any of my time. They are not worth a whole lot of anything right now. If they are so unhappy that they have to make fun of someone in front of people to feel good and have fun, that is really truly sad for them.

    I AM WORTH IT. I came home and put on pajamas and sat down on the bathroom floor and took off my toe nail polish. I did this to hide my femininity. I know now that MY FEMININITY IS NOT SOMETHING THAT SHOULD BE HIDDEN. I am gorgeous and handsome. I am AMAZING.

    I hope these boys no nothing of being mispronouned. I hope they never know what it’s like to be called a freak and I hope they never treat anyone less than anyone deserves when they’ve grown older.

    Tomorrow, I will repaint my toenails. Bright ass pink. It will be brilliant and fabulous. And those teenage boys don’t deserve that kind of brilliant fabulousness. My beauty is beyond them.

    Posted on: 15th October 2014 - 17 notesReblog

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